Did read the news this week? Lots of talk about what masculinity is, and indignant rebuttals asserting what masculinity isn’t. We’re not surprised that companies dedicated to a man’s skin should want to get beneath it. Because our Title Sponsor Dove Men+Care, which has signed on as our Title Sponsor for a seventh consecutive year, has been skillfully assailing unhealthy stereotypes for a decade.
One such trope that is taking a rightful beating is the idea that paternity leave is some kind of vacation. It’s not only a lot of work (without a lot of sleep), it’s an opportunity that benefits the whole family as it manages the crucial first days of our kids’ lives–as well as the mind-blowing changes in our own.
Dove Men+Care has already invested in paternity leave, literally, by contributing to active crowdfunding requests from real dads and their families across the country. But that’s essentially just running around putting buckets under the leaks. It’s time to fix the roof.
To that end, we’re looking forward to an extensive discussion at Dad 2.019 about leave from the filmmakers of the documentary Zero Weeks, and their belief that “no matter where you work or what zip code you live in, you should be able to welcome a new child … without facing financial disaster.”
This is why, one of the themes of Dad 2.019 will be advocacy promoting parental leave, helping men get the information they need, and to ensure the sea change is deep and powerful.
We think that’s a conversation worth having, and we cannot wait to have it with you.
We have now announced three of our Dad 2.019 sponsors, including Title Sponsor Dove Men+Care, Presenting Sponsor Google For Education, and Supporting Sponsor LEGOLAND. There are more to come, plus lots of other amazing surprises. Make sure you are following our social channels for all your update needs!
Our 2019 venue, the @WestinRiverwalk in #SanAntonio, is a straight-up beautiful spot. Click here to reserve your room for just $199/night; the deadline is just two weeks from today! https://t.co/Ax8RF7TVCg pic.twitter.com/E4sm44luDL
— Dad 2.0 Summit (@dad2summit) January 17, 2019
IN THE NEWS
There is a line between confidence and arrogance, and parents can help kids stay on the right side of it. Usually.
Time is a precious commodity for parents. Here’s why it often feels as if you have less of it.
If you can’t trust your kids with autonomy, you might burden them with anxiety.
Real strength isn’t measured by dumbbells alone, but also in the ability to care when caring proves difficult.
A new study, while allowing for several other factors, suggests that "males who are socialized to conform to 'traditional masculinity ideology' are often negatively affected in terms of mental and physical health. https://t.co/0gq9nTNuVN
— Dad 2.0 Summit (@dad2summit) January 11, 2019
Few people exclaim on their deathbeds that they wish they’d written more emails.
“Each time I fill out the forms, get the pin prick test, and sit in the recliner and squeeze the ball to plump up my vein, I remember my dad in the small acts of giving from different phases of his life.”
Transitioning from nipple to bottle can be a big challenge, with or without skepticism from your lactation coach.
"Yes, I am that dad now, the one who delights in exposing my kids to positive messages. I am extremely wholesome and deeply uncool." – @chrisdeville on kids and their soundtrack. #fatherhood #kids #music https://t.co/j1nAxQXmIU
— Dad 2.0 Summit (@dad2summit) January 16, 2019
Almost two-thirds of respondent gay dads said they had been “shamed, hurt, excluded or made to feel uncomfortable in the prior year.”
Parenting is full of important conversations. You’ve got this.
Being alone doesn’t need to be lonely. Time alone helps kids build an emotional armor.
The latest parenting fad is sleeping. Are you going to try it? https://t.co/WXvOsRYPVe
— Dad 2.0 Summit (@dad2summit) January 14, 2019
- “I want to be ‘Hey Daddy’ for a while, at least forever I think.” – Thom Hofman; Untitled
- “There is a light in your eyes that refuses to be dimmed. A song in your soul that will not be silenced. A bounce in your step that cannot be discouraged.” – Nicholas Casey; Six
- “It was the hot thing a few years back. I recall seeing some people posting sweaty photos and words about it on Facebook before my feed was hijacked by the Russians.” – Kevin McKeever; Another Year, Another Gym Membership
- “I survived. The boys survived. The cat survived.” – Eric Olson; Stay-at-Home Dad Chronicles: The First Full Week
- “Oddly enough, pre-Fortnite, he was a stiff, awkward dancer. Now, though, he’s pretty slick.” – Mike Armstrong; The Problem With Fortnite
‘GRAM OF THE WEEK
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