Fatherhood on Friday: Make Time For Screen Time

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When it comes to kids and screen time, we’ve certainly highlighted many hot takes from experts on all sides of this spirited debate. The latest piece that caught our eye this week is from Jordan Shapiro, the renowned author and Brookings Global fellow who led off the Community ThreeNote at Dad 2.019. When he assesses the World Health Organization’s new guidelines for regulating your kids’ screen use, he argues that the recommendations are “based on bad science.” And we agree.

There are three main points that resonate particularly with us:

  • “There’s only very weak correlative evidence linking screen time to negative outcomes.”
  • “The advice overly focuses on quantity of screen time and fails to consider the content and context of use. Not all screen time is created equal.”
  • “Many of our concerns around kids and technology are really about nostalgia and an unconscious fear of change. We don’t want to disrupt our most familiar conception of the childhood experience.”

This last point is the big kahuna. When we’re faced with a nettlesome parenting choice, we instinctively revert to our own experience as kids, without enough acknowledgment of how irrelevant it is, given the vastly different parameters we have to work with.

The science on the long-term effects of screen time is incomplete and in dispute, but we can see the merits of limitations, simply for the sakes of social interaction, and physical exercise, and standard brain development without the constant bombardment of flashy thingies.

The bottom line for us, however, is that adhering to some sort of boilerplate schedule is the easy way out. Kids need digital mentorship, not censorship. And keeping in touch with the media our kids consume, as well as learning the impact of how they consume it, is one of the greatest opportunities we have to get into their heads and look around, and “engage in digital play together.”

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